Longtime blog followers will know that I have written a lot about the vow of poverty. It is very misunderstood, often neglected, and rarely means much in our practical lives as friars. We are told we must live chastity and obedience without any exception, but poverty? Well… that’s a big more complicated, we say. We sort of “grow into” that one.

On the one hand, I understand why. As opposed to the other two, poverty has an all-encompassing yet difficult to define nature. It involves material possession and acts of will alike, and there is hardly a proper measuring stick to grade one’s performance. While chastity and obedience might be said to be goods in their own right, poverty is more often something we speak about in a negative sense: it is something we must eradicate, and freely taking it on is merely a pathway to something else.

It is also the most visible of our vows, something that people can see (and judge) from the outside without a full picture. Seeing my laptop, camera, house, car, and vacation, some have taken it upon themselves to criticize my life, to call me a fake or a fraud, and to explain to me what true poverty is.

How do you respond to that?

Just like the vow itself, the answer is muddied and complex. In one sense, yeah, people are right. We could do better. This vow is a bit of a joke at times and we just sort of accept that we mean something different than the rest of the world does. We are not poor and can never be poor like those who are financially desperate. Our voluntary poverty often lacks a sense of stress or pressure, and the lack of urgency in living it means that we rarely feel any spiritual effects from it.

And yet, what we profess to live is not abject poverty. What we give up is not the use of material goods. How, really, could someone live without anything? This image of religious life—one of the strictest austerity and deprecation—is not a virtue as much as it is actually an idol, focusing our attention on something that is not God rather than using it to lead us to God. The vow of poverty, if exclusively about the amount of material possessions one owns, runs the risk of turning into a weapon to empower or belittle, to put ourselves above or below others. When its ultimate focus is not what is beyond—a life lived in Christ with humility—it is not longer a vow worth taking.

My hope is that this week’s video will help continue the conversation that I have already started here. If you would like to read more about this topic, below you will find links to a four-part series I wrote a number of years ago.

My Struggle With Poverty
Why Poverty?
How To: Poverty
My [Continued] Struggle With Poverty

Do you ever have that feeling like you’ve taken on too much? You lie awake at night thinking about all that you have to the next day, wondering how you’re going to get it done?

Yeah, join the club.

Without exaggeration, the next three months will be the busiest, most exciting, and undeniably most overwhelming of my life. Every day I look at the calendar, reconfigure the daily schedule, and sit back as my back starts to tense up. Have I made a mistake?

Stress is all a part of life. We all have it from time to time, and it might even be good for us. The fact that I’m overwhelmed right now—the fact that you and so many others might be feeling the same way—is not that intriguing me.

How we deal with stress, particularly as Christians… now that’s an interesting question. I have a few suggestions in this week’s vlog.

If you haven’t already preordered my new book, Called: What Happens After Saying Yes to God, be sure to click here and check it out!

After a relaxing yet chaotic couple of weeks, I’m back in Chicago and ready for an exciting semester. A lot to share soon (check back Saturday for the latest vlog), but for now, I’m happy to release the upcoming trailer for the next season of Catholicism in Focus. Topics will include:

  • How late can I show up to mass and still receive communion?
  • Why we’ve been reading the Gospels wrong
  • What’s the difference between a religion and a cult?
  • Does God suffer life we do?
  • and many more!

Set to start January 29, join me each Monday for new episodes! You can also share this video with your friends to help spread the Gospel, and be sure to check out my new book set to release at the end of next month: Called: What Happens After Saying Yes to God.

They say that the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree, that the best way to begin to understand someone is by meeting their parents and seeing where they come from. Like it or not, we often take the traits of our parents, including their values, sense of humor, subtle mannerisms, and annoying ticks.

Ladies and gentlemen… my parents.

While home on vacation last week, I had the wonderful opportunity to sit down with my parents and ask them fan-inspired questions in this week’s video. Ranging from vocations to what I was like as a child, my parents don’t hold back in their answers, sharing their joy, their support for me, and just enough personality to reveal the proverbial tree from which I fell. In my case, I didn’t fall far, and I’m okay with that.

For regular blog followers, this week’s video will be nothing new: I find the habit to be an effective way to evangelize and so I wear it whenever I can. Even to the airport. In what turned out to be a similar video to my first ever video (which I strongly recommend never watching), join me as I travel by bus, plane, and car to get home for Christmas vacation.

I hope everyone has a great Christmas and a happy New Year!